Guyland: The Perilous World Where Boys Become Men

One of the most eminent scholars and writers on men and masculinity and the author of the critically acclaimed Manhood in America turns his attention to the culture of guys, aged 16 to 26: their attitudes, their relationships, their rules, and their rituals.“Kimmel is our seasoned guide into a world that, unless we are guys, we barely know exists. As he walks with us through dark territories, he points out the significant and reflects on its meaning.”—Mary Pipher, Ph.D., author of Reviving OpheliaThe passage from adolescence to adulthood was once clear. Today, growing up has become more complex and confusing, as young men drift casually through college and beyond—hanging out, partying, playing with tech toys, watching sports. But beneath the appearance of a simple extended boyhood, a more dangerous social world has developed, far away from the traditional signposts and cultural signals that once helped boys navigate their way to manhood—a territory Michael Kimmel has identified as "Guyland."In mapping the troubling social world where men are now made, Kimmel offers a view into the minds and times of America's sons, brothers, and boyfriends, and he works toward redefining what it means to be a man today—and tomorrow. Only by understanding this world and this life stage can we enable young men to chart their own paths, stay true to themselves, and emerge safely from Guyland as responsible and fully formed male adults.In this definitive exploration of the sociology of masculinity, Kimmel uncovers the unwritten rules and dangerous rituals of this new stage of life:The Guy Code: The collection of attitudes and traits that define what it means to be a man in Guyland, from "Bros Before Hos" to the pressures that silence even good guys.Fraternity Hazing: An unflinching look at the often sadistic and humiliating initiation rituals on high school and college campuses, and why they persist despite the lethal consequences.Binge Drinking: Why getting drunk isn’t just a party, but a central rite of passage for almost-men, and how the culture of excess defines today’s campus social life.Sexual Assault on Campus: A critical analysis of party rape, hooking up, and predatory sex, exploring the cultures of entitlement and silence that put young women at risk. Read more